Sounds too good to be true. I did in fact get a “yes” as a response from my wife. How did I get it? By agreeing to some things that I am not particularly pleased with.
To sum it all up, I told her that if she wants the divorce then I will be completely ignorant to the entire process, agree to everything, and sign whatever she puts in front of me. When all is said and done she can have whatever paperwork she wants. I wish to remain completely ignorant to it all.
My demands are we still call each other husband and wife, and wear our rings. I don’t want to ever hear the word “divorce” as long as I live, no matter what. The big thing, we start working on that second chance, NOW! She said “YES”. At this point I will take what I can get. I love my wife and to be given the opportunity to show her that there is more to me than what the Army brought out.
At most I can hope that she sees it before divorce is final and grants my previous request of placing everything on hold and stick with the separation. One step at a time though. I am just overly excited that I can spend time with my wife once again.
I just hope I don’t screw this up.









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